Women- The weaker sex or men?

The weaker sex is what we women are usually referred to as. The fairer one, on the bright side. Men on the other-hand are the stronger ones. The ones who usually get away unscathed may it be a relationship or other hurdle. We women are looked upon as the cry babies. But after seeing a couple of movies on the same lines has made me wonder if we indeed are the weaker sex. Rest assured i dont mean to take a feminist stand here. 

Women get hurt, blame. cry, mourn, whine, eat lots of chocolates and ice creams. shop but in the end get over it. They move on. Whereas on the other hand, men act all macho about the loss, are unaffected (apparently) and move on. But in the end they are the ones who carry the hurt they were borne to, subjected to and it gets down to affecting their future decisions and relationships. 

How many women have we mat who say "Naaaa I don't want to get married, too much heartache" as compared to the number of men who dont believe in the institution of love or marriage likewise.

Take "Ghosts of the Girlfriends Past" a movie I saw last night to relax and unwind rather it got me to thinking and lead to this. Two thoughts:

(a) Men hold the injustice done to them, the heartbreak they are subjected to and it affects their future relationships
and a conclusion
(b) If a guy is hurt and he ends up being a player, hes HURT but if a woman stops believing in the institution of love or relationships then well simply put shes a SLUT.

In the movie I am talking about, young Connor Mead (Matthew McConaughey) is hurt in love when her childhood love goes away to dance with the popular senior at the dance at school!! That night along with his uncle (A Playboy) decides that he would never be hurt again, would never feel the pain that he did that night. And the rest is history. History of affairs, one night stands, women, women and women.

Movies on the same lines would be The Ugly Truth too, where a heart break in the life of Gerad Buttler is hinted at..!

I can recall atleast half a dozen guy friends who are 'too scared to commit' or 'dont believe in commitment', almost all with a history of major heartbreaks. On the other hand I know so many girls who have had major heart breaks but dont give up on the institution of love. Guys are more affected by their parents married lives than are women. Here I donot wish to make a generalisation. Its my observation.

Men, wouldnt it be easier to just cry over it, accept it as a part of life and move on? Think how many women you would save from heart breaks..!!

Also, likewise if a woman gives up on the idea of love or serious relationships or marriage and the likes then they are merely and blatantly SLUTS!! If we are indeed the weaker sex then why arent we allowed to give up more easily? Should it be the other way round? Men are stronger, we expect them to be, the entire population expects them to be, if they give up then they are man-whores instead of the other way round..!!
-Amen